First Moments

The first time with a friend? How to avoid difficult times?
I met her on MySpace, because I knew but only ended the construction of a good friendship. Tomorrow is her birthday and went to the mall tomorrow. Yes, my friends meet in real life and goes to the same school as me, but a lesser degree. He's coming home tomorrow and make a birthday cake and eat it, then head to the mall. We are two girls on the road. I'm scared and nervous, so I do not know what to say, and I am calm. How to avoid difficult times?
ask for it … and ask what seems familiar likes to do in your free time … open random jokes or say something I find interesting or cool … because their girls is both easier to communicate with them with a Boy Girl Talk … Good luck and have fun!